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My Beautiful Baby 13 Weeks

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Meet my baby who died when I was 13 weeks pregnant. The photos are beautiful. These are actual photos that were taken of my real baby the day after he was delivered. This is also my story about how I and my community responded to miscarriage. Photos taken by my friend Nikki. For more photos and my personal stories, visit my blog at www.alwaystheirmother.blogspot.com. This video and the photos are copyrighted. Please do not steal it for your own or alter it in any way.
NOTE: "13 weeks" means the baby was in the 13th week of pregnancy, which is the last week of the first trimester. This is 11 weeks after conception.
For those who have a hard time believing that this is a real baby at 13 weeks, please look at medical documentation, medical drawings, and other photos on the Internet that women have shared of their miscarried babies. Perhaps you can learn more about the development of a baby in the womb.
All the photos are beautiful. Human life is beautiful!
Approximately 75,000 babies at this stage are aborted every year in the United States. I am not stating this fact to judge anyone. I state this fact for education.
WHY I MADE THIS VIDEO:
1) To bring some education and truth to a subject that is filled with misinformation. Medical drawings and photographs accurately detail the development of a 13-week baby. But it is quite rare to actually see a baby this age face-to-face. I had these beautiful photographs and this unique opportunity to share my baby. I wanted to share him with anyone who was interested in seeing him.
2) To share my experience with other grieving parents. Many women have thanked me for sharing the photos because they had losses at similar stages, and they never had the opportunity to see their baby. The photos allowed them to see what their own baby might have looked like, and that gives them peace. Also, many women have told me that they regret not grieving their baby. They wanted to grieve their baby, but they did not feel that they had permission. Many women have shared heartbreaking stories of hospital staff refusing to allow them to see their baby against their pleas, throwing the baby in the medical trash. One thing that this video communicates is that it's OK for parents to grieve their baby.
3) This is a memorial video.

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For those who are confused: This is a miscarriage that happened at 13 weeks of pregnancy (the last week of the first trimester). Information, FAQ, and translations: Meet my baby who died when I was 13 weeks pregnant. These are actual photos that were taken of him the day after he was delivered. This is also my story about how I and my community responded to miscarriage. For those who have a hard time believing that this is a real baby at 13 weeks, please look at medical documentation, medical drawings, and other photos on the Internet that women have shared of their miscarried babies. Perhaps you can learn more about the development of a baby in the womb. FAQ: "How did he die? Why is the baby so small?" This is a miscarriage that happened during the last week of the first trimester of pregnancy. He was a perfectly normal baby. There was another medical condition during the pregnancy that caused his death (unpreventable and untreatable). "How did you know he was a boy?" All the parts were there. It was clear that he was a boy. Later on a medical test confirmed that he was a "normal baby boy." Ultrasound machines are unable to detect the gender until around 17-20 weeks, and that is why many parents do not know the gender until then. "Why does he look shiny?" At this stage, the skin is a different texture from your skin or a newborn's skin. It is smooth and even sticky. Remember that babies are submerged in water for the entire 9 months of the pregnancy. I am no expert on fetal skin development, but it makes sense to me that the skin would be more compatible with being continuously underwater. Also, we kept Isaiah in a solution of saline (salt water) so that his body would stay well preserved until burial. The shininess comes from the fact that the skin was hydrated from being submerged in water, combined with the fact that it is a very smooth texture. "Why does he have teeth?" He did not have teeth. The photo at 1:13 shows him underwater, and what you are seeing in his mouth is tissue. His skin in his mouth was a little loose, and the water made that apparent. We put him in a saline solution (salt water) in order to preserve his body until burial. "How did the hospital allow you to hold the baby or take him home?" I delivered Isaiah at home with the assistance of a midwife. I was under the supervision of an obstetrician and nurse-midwife, and I did this with their knowledge and approval. Both my husband and I wanted to be respectful to Isaiah's body and give him a burial. We wanted to try to have him at home if possible because we did not want to take the risk of any hospital staff being disrespectful of our wishes. (Disclaimer: I am sharing this experience for educational purposes only. This is not medical advice. We also knew that there was a chance that I might need to deliver in the hospital or have a D&C rather than deliver more naturally, and we were accepting of that.) From hearing and reading other women's stories, it sounds like in some cases hospitals allow mothers to hold their miscarried baby and take their baby home, if they choose. I do not know how common that practice is, but I hope that it will eventually be mainstream to offer this option to women. "Where is the umbilical cord?" The umbilical cord was cut by the midwife and discarded. When people ask this, they are probably wondering about the umbilical stump. At this stage, the umbilical stump is much lower on the belly than you would expect. You would need to look at photos of other miscarried babies at this stage to see this. When we took the photos of Isaiah, I purposely covered his genitals and umbilical stump with his legs and feet. I'd had a previous loss at 15 weeks in which the umbilical stump clearly showed in the photos. For Isaiah, I decided that I wanted it covered. I "clothed" him with his legs and feet. At the time, the photos were only for me-- not for anyone else. I never thought I would later decide to share the photos with the world, and I never could have guessed that in the future someone would have wanted to see his umbilical stump. In response to commenters who are asking for translation: Mon bébé est mort à 13 semaines de grossesse (11 semaines après la conception). J'ai eu de belles photos de lui et a fait cette vidéo pour montrer à tout le monde à quoi ressemble un bébé dans l'utérus. Les légendes de la vidéo lisent: À 13 semaines, mon doux bébé est mort. Je l'ai livré aussi naturellement que possible. Mon amie a pris des photos pour moi. Et je veux le partager avec vous. Il s'appelle Isaïe. Nous pouvions voir toutes les lignes de l'iris de son œil. Les détails se sont avérés meilleurs sous l'eau. J'ai adoré son petit ventre. Nous avons eu un service de sépulture. Esaïe est un bébé précieux… un vrai bébé… comme il l'était depuis le début… et je serai toujours sa mère. Mi bebé murió a las 13 semanas de embarazo (11 semanas después de la concepción). Tenía hermosas fotos de él e hice este video para mostrarles a todos cómo es realmente un bebé en el útero. Los subtítulos del video decían: A las 13 semanas, mi dulce bebé murió. Lo entregué lo más naturalmente posible. Mi amigo tomó fotos para mí. Y quiero compartirlo contigo. Su nombre es Isaiah. Pudimos ver todas las líneas del iris de su ojo. Los detalles se mostraron mejor bajo el agua. Me encantó su pequeña barriga. Tuvimos un servicio conmemorativo. Isaiah es un bebé precioso ... un bebé real ... como lo fue desde el principio ... y siempre seré su madre. Mein Baby starb in der 13. Schwangerschaftswoche (11 Wochen nach der Empfängnis). Ich hatte wunderschöne Fotos von ihm und machte dieses Video, um jedem zu zeigen, wie ein Baby im Mutterleib wirklich aussieht. Die Videountertitel lauteten: Mit 13 Wochen starb mein süßes Baby. Ich habe ihn so natürlich wie möglich geboren. Mein Freund hat Fotos für mich gemacht. Und ich möchte ihm mit dir teilen. Sein Name ist Isaiah. Wir konnten alle Linien der Iris seines Auges sehen. Die Details waren am besten unter Wasser. Ich liebte seinen kleinen Bauch. Wir hatten eine Gedenkfeier. Jesaja ist ein kostbares Baby ... ein echtes Baby ... wie er von Anfang an war ... und ich werde immer seine Mutter sein. Il mio bambino è morto a 13 settimane di gravidanza (11 settimane dopo il concepimento). Ho avuto delle belle foto su di lui e ho realizzato questo video per mostrare a tutti che aspetto ha un bambino nel grembo materno. Le didascalie del video dicevano: A 13 settimane, il mio dolce bambino morì. L'ho consegnato nel modo più naturale possibile. Il mio amico ha fatto delle foto per me. E voglio condividerlo con te. Il suo nome è Isaia. Potremmo vedere tutte le linee dell'iride del suo occhio. I dettagli si sono presentati meglio sott'acqua. Ho amato la sua piccola pancia. Abbiamo avuto un servizio di sepoltura. Isaia è un bebe prezioso ... un vero bebe ... com'era sin dall'inizio ... e sarò sempre sua madre. Мой ребенок умер в 13 недель беременности (через 11 недель после зачатия). У меня были красивые фотографии его и сделали это видео, чтобы показать всем, как выглядит ребенок в матке. Подписи к видео: «Через 13 недель мой сладкий ребенок умер. Я поставил его как можно более естественно. Мой друг сделал фотографии для меня. И я хочу поделиться им с вами. Его зовут Исаия. Мы могли видеть все линии радужной оболочки глаза. Детали оказались лучше под водой. Я любил его маленький живот. У нас была поминальная служба. Исайя - драгоценный ребенок ... настоящий ребенок ... как он был с самого начала ... и я всегда буду его матерью. توفي طفلي في 13 أسبوع من الحمل (بعد 11 أسبوعًا من الحمل). كان لدي صور جميلة له وصنع هذا الفيديو لأظهر للجميع ما يبدو عليه الطفل الرضيع حقا. قراءة تسميات الفيديو: في 13 أسبوعاً مات طفلي الحلو. لقد سلمته بشكل طبيعي قدر الإمكان. أخذ صديقي الصور لي. وأريد أن أشاركه معك. اسمه اشعياء. يمكننا رؤية جميع خطوط قزحية عينه. أظهرت التفاصيل أفضل تحت الماء. أنا أحب بطنه الصغير. كان لدينا خدمة الدفن. أشعياء هو طفل ثمين ... طفل حقيقي ... كما كان من البداية ... وسوف أكون دائما أمه.
Mary Johnson
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RIP he will go to heaven your beloved baby boy
Anthony Heaton
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I am so sorry to hear that
anamika mishra
anamika mishra Рік тому
Isaiah's mom, you r really very brave..May the little angel boy Rest In Peace..you r a mom in actual..I salute u
Christina M.
Christina M. Рік тому
I'm really sorry for you :( 😅I'm sorry but I don't really know what to say, I'm speechless
Lilian Wu
Lilian Wu Рік тому
I feel so bad for u😢😟😦😳😶😭😭😭😔
Ashanti Stewart
Ashanti Stewart 3 місяці тому
The 78k who disliked this is evil.....I'm sorry this happened ❤️
sailaja .k
sailaja .k 3 місяці тому
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 so sad
Sherry Palek
Sherry Palek 3 місяці тому
So Very Truly Sorry for Your Loss 💔
Ireland Roberts
Ireland Roberts 3 місяці тому
Roses are red Violets are blue God Bless that baby And let him live another beautiful life too
Andrew Barnfield
Andrew Barnfield 3 місяці тому
What a beatufulll baby he didnot Evan get to experience life 😭 Edit. I want him to have another life. Be the same size as evryone and not to die in 13 weeks
Stassi Glover
Stassi Glover 3 місяці тому
😭😭😭😭sooo saddd💔💔😭😭😭
Carol Delso
Carol Delso 3 місяці тому
😭
fatima Gutiérrez
fatima Gutiérrez 3 місяці тому
😫😭😭😧😢
monse diego
monse diego 3 місяці тому
I wanna cry well I can't because my grandma is sleeping but I sure will cry I swear bless him well don't worry cuz some day you,LL get a baby again so bless isahia he's beautiful and amazing idk you but I love him as a friend!you have one friend already isaaih everyone loves you
monse diego
monse diego 3 місяці тому
Bless isahia he's so cute.sorry if I said it wrong
Estere Circir
Estere Circir 3 місяці тому
That soo sed😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
JOCELYN UwU
JOCELYN UwU 3 місяці тому
I hope he lives in a better place ;-;
Leah Hart
Leah Hart 3 місяці тому
Thank you for sharing your story. It was very strong of you to put out your heart and let us see your beautiful baby boy.
DarkAxel _KunYT
DarkAxel _KunYT 3 місяці тому
So small tho
Brazen Spy
Brazen Spy 3 місяці тому
This is very sad, my condolences to you, your family, and Isaiah.
Kelly Anderson
Kelly Anderson 3 місяці тому
The last picture made me feel bad because I had holes in my lungs and couldn’t breathe and Isaiah couldn’t experience life RIP...and btw😇
Kelly Anderson
Kelly Anderson 3 місяці тому
😇
creeperboy 31
creeperboy 31 3 місяці тому
I used to have 3 brothers and then 2 died of a hurricane and their were only a month old😭😭
Just.SoManyCups
Just.SoManyCups 3 місяці тому
That tiny coffin broke me
Dianty N 29
Dianty N 29 3 місяці тому
Rip ..Gbu
Amazing Lion
Amazing Lion 3 місяці тому
Roses are red Violets are blue god will give Another life for him
Gigi Tv Beleza&Saúde
Gigi Tv Beleza&Saúde 3 місяці тому
Nossa
Vincent Adams
Vincent Adams 3 місяці тому
I couldn’t help but cry!! Abortion is MURDER!!
Shoxrux Saxodullayev
Shoxrux Saxodullayev 3 місяці тому
Миллион жамоаси
Best sis LPS tv
Best sis LPS tv 3 місяці тому
😢🙁1 yeer
Crystal
Crystal 3 місяці тому
I am so sorry for you....i....just cant imagine what your going through
Valentino Bonau
Valentino Bonau 3 місяці тому
rip we love you lsaiah😔😞
Namrata Singha
Namrata Singha 3 місяці тому
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
bateh Salam
bateh Salam 3 місяці тому
😭😭
Professor Bacon
Professor Bacon 3 місяці тому
How is he so tiny though?
Isettabubblecar
Isettabubblecar 3 місяці тому
F
CVBPH GAMING
CVBPH GAMING 3 місяці тому
AMEN😭
Ray Renee
Ray Renee 3 місяці тому
So soryy to hear
Morgan Craig
Morgan Craig 3 місяці тому
Im soooo sorry for ur loss
Amanda Franco
Amanda Franco 3 місяці тому
:”(
Leea Park
Leea Park 3 місяці тому
So beautiful and sad, my condolences, I had an spontaneous abortion before, but now I’m in my 13th week of pregnancy and I am very excited for my baby, but I understand the risk is always there :(
Oona Hietala
Oona Hietala 3 місяці тому
OMG IM SO SORRY FOR YOUR BABY...........................
Isla xoxo
Isla xoxo 3 місяці тому
God bless you and your baby! Wish you all the best!
Muskan Shaikh
Muskan Shaikh 3 місяці тому
Mine is also 13weeks baby died
2boliviano
2boliviano 3 місяці тому
Congratulations! He was beautiful
Weston OG
Weston OG 4 місяці тому
im legit crying so hard that my eyes are coming out :(
tkam cool boy
tkam cool boy 4 місяці тому
God bless that baby
Monsters Rule
Monsters Rule 4 місяці тому
It's weird watching this video because my name is also isaiah same spelling and everything
Tsun
Tsun 4 місяці тому
Is he already dead in all of these photos?
deborah fulcher
deborah fulcher 3 місяці тому
Yes
Temi Adeyiga
Temi Adeyiga 4 місяці тому
Rest In Peace Isaiah❤️❤️❤️
Allyson _XD236
Allyson _XD236 4 місяці тому
😭This made me cry cuz the baby died😭
Fortnite God Gaming
Fortnite God Gaming 4 місяці тому
He is really small
Brenda Butler
Brenda Butler 4 місяці тому
Where did he sleep and take a both
Paula Haworth
Paula Haworth 4 місяці тому
I am so sorry my mom lost my baby brother when he was born he look just like that it is so sad and i know how u feel and i am so sorry
Fatima Khatun
Fatima Khatun 4 місяці тому
He would’ve been 3 now
sajad sajad
sajad sajad 4 місяці тому
سبحان الخالق
Sheila Bhatti
Sheila Bhatti 4 місяці тому
OMG im so sad😭😭😭my mom is pregnant so plss pray for my mom
//SuperAsh4U//
//SuperAsh4U// 4 місяці тому
This scared me so bad and broke my heart 😭😭😭😭I'm scared of getting pregnant now
Paula Anderson
Paula Anderson 4 місяці тому
This beautiful soul, was not ready to be here yet, REST LITTLE ONE
Mary Juke
Mary Juke 4 місяці тому
So heartbreaking.I am SO sorry for your loss.
Amaris Milan
Amaris Milan 4 місяці тому
Webcam i watch the I'm sad and crying because he died I'm i will pray for him
Amaris Milan
Amaris Milan 4 місяці тому
So poor baby please pray for him
Vanella Pillatora
Vanella Pillatora 4 місяці тому
Why is there many people disliked this video ☹️☹️im sad about it
Marie Gacha
Marie Gacha 4 місяці тому
I’m sorry for you’re loss.
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