My Beautiful Baby 13 Weeks

Isaiahs Mom
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Meet my baby who died when I was 13 weeks pregnant. The photos are beautiful. These are actual photos that were taken of my real baby the day after he was delivered. This is also my story about how I and my community responded to miscarriage. Photos taken by my friend Nikki. For more photos and my personal stories, visit my blog at www.alwaystheirmother.blogspot.com. This video and the photos are copyrighted. Please do not steal it for your own or alter it in any way.
NOTE: "13 weeks" means the baby was in the 13th week of pregnancy, which is the last week of the first trimester. This is 11 weeks after conception.
For those who have a hard time believing that this is a real baby at 13 weeks, please look at medical documentation, medical drawings, and other photos on the Internet that women have shared of their miscarried babies. Perhaps you can learn more about the development of a baby in the womb.
All the photos are beautiful. Human life is beautiful!
Approximately 75,000 babies at this stage are aborted every year in the United States. I am not stating this fact to judge anyone. I state this fact for education.
1) To bring some education and truth to a subject that is filled with misinformation. Medical drawings and photographs accurately detail the development of a 13-week baby. But it is quite rare to actually see a baby this age face-to-face. I had these beautiful photographs and this unique opportunity to share my baby. I wanted to share him with anyone who was interested in seeing him.
2) To share my experience with other grieving parents. Many women have thanked me for sharing the photos because they had losses at similar stages, and they never had the opportunity to see their baby. The photos allowed them to see what their own baby might have looked like, and that gives them peace. Also, many women have told me that they regret not grieving their baby. They wanted to grieve their baby, but they did not feel that they had permission. Many women have shared heartbreaking stories of hospital staff refusing to allow them to see their baby against their pleas, throwing the baby in the medical trash. One thing that this video communicates is that it's OK for parents to grieve their baby.
3) This is a memorial video.



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For those who are confused: This is a miscarriage that happened at 13 weeks of pregnancy (the last week of the first trimester). Information, FAQ, and translations: Meet my baby who died when I was 13 weeks pregnant. These are actual photos that were taken of him the day after he was delivered. This is also my story about how I and my community responded to miscarriage. For those who have a hard time believing that this is a real baby at 13 weeks, please look at medical documentation, medical drawings, and other photos on the Internet that women have shared of their miscarried babies. Perhaps you can learn more about the development of a baby in the womb. FAQ: "How did he die? Why is the baby so small?" This is a miscarriage that happened during the last week of the first trimester of pregnancy. He was a perfectly normal baby. There was another medical condition during the pregnancy that caused his death (unpreventable and untreatable). "How did you know he was a boy?" All the parts were there. It was clear that he was a boy. Later on a medical test confirmed that he was a "normal baby boy." Ultrasound machines are unable to detect the gender until around 17-20 weeks, and that is why many parents do not know the gender until then. "Why does he look shiny?" At this stage, the skin is a different texture from your skin or a newborn's skin. It is smooth and even sticky. Remember that babies are submerged in water for the entire 9 months of the pregnancy. I am no expert on fetal skin development, but it makes sense to me that the skin would be more compatible with being continuously underwater. Also, we kept Isaiah in a solution of saline (salt water) so that his body would stay well preserved until burial. The shininess comes from the fact that the skin was hydrated from being submerged in water, combined with the fact that it is a very smooth texture. "Why does he have teeth?" He did not have teeth. The photo at 1:13 shows him underwater, and what you are seeing in his mouth is tissue. His skin in his mouth was a little loose, and the water made that apparent. We put him in a saline solution (salt water) in order to preserve his body until burial. "How did the hospital allow you to hold the baby or take him home?" I delivered Isaiah at home with the assistance of a midwife. I was under the supervision of an obstetrician and nurse-midwife, and I did this with their knowledge and approval. Both my husband and I wanted to be respectful to Isaiah's body and give him a burial. We wanted to try to have him at home if possible because we did not want to take the risk of any hospital staff being disrespectful of our wishes. (Disclaimer: I am sharing this experience for educational purposes only. This is not medical advice. We also knew that there was a chance that I might need to deliver in the hospital or have a D&C rather than deliver more naturally, and we were accepting of that.) From hearing and reading other women's stories, it sounds like in some cases hospitals allow mothers to hold their miscarried baby and take their baby home, if they choose. I do not know how common that practice is, but I hope that it will eventually be mainstream to offer this option to women. "Where is the umbilical cord?" The umbilical cord was cut by the midwife and discarded. When people ask this, they are probably wondering about the umbilical stump. At this stage, the umbilical stump is much lower on the belly than you would expect. You would need to look at photos of other miscarried babies at this stage to see this. When we took the photos of Isaiah, I purposely covered his genitals and umbilical stump with his legs and feet. I'd had a previous loss at 15 weeks in which the umbilical stump clearly showed in the photos. For Isaiah, I decided that I wanted it covered. I "clothed" him with his legs and feet. At the time, the photos were only for me-- not for anyone else. I never thought I would later decide to share the photos with the world, and I never could have guessed that in the future someone would have wanted to see his umbilical stump. In response to commenters who are asking for translation: Mon bébé est mort à 13 semaines de grossesse (11 semaines après la conception). J'ai eu de belles photos de lui et a fait cette vidéo pour montrer à tout le monde à quoi ressemble un bébé dans l'utérus. Les légendes de la vidéo lisent: À 13 semaines, mon doux bébé est mort. Je l'ai livré aussi naturellement que possible. Mon amie a pris des photos pour moi. Et je veux le partager avec vous. Il s'appelle Isaïe. Nous pouvions voir toutes les lignes de l'iris de son œil. Les détails se sont avérés meilleurs sous l'eau. J'ai adoré son petit ventre. Nous avons eu un service de sépulture. Esaïe est un bébé précieux… un vrai bébé… comme il l'était depuis le début… et je serai toujours sa mère. Mi bebé murió a las 13 semanas de embarazo (11 semanas después de la concepción). Tenía hermosas fotos de él e hice este video para mostrarles a todos cómo es realmente un bebé en el útero. Los subtítulos del video decían: A las 13 semanas, mi dulce bebé murió. Lo entregué lo más naturalmente posible. Mi amigo tomó fotos para mí. Y quiero compartirlo contigo. Su nombre es Isaiah. Pudimos ver todas las líneas del iris de su ojo. Los detalles se mostraron mejor bajo el agua. Me encantó su pequeña barriga. Tuvimos un servicio conmemorativo. Isaiah es un bebé precioso ... un bebé real ... como lo fue desde el principio ... y siempre seré su madre. Mein Baby starb in der 13. Schwangerschaftswoche (11 Wochen nach der Empfängnis). Ich hatte wunderschöne Fotos von ihm und machte dieses Video, um jedem zu zeigen, wie ein Baby im Mutterleib wirklich aussieht. Die Videountertitel lauteten: Mit 13 Wochen starb mein süßes Baby. Ich habe ihn so natürlich wie möglich geboren. Mein Freund hat Fotos für mich gemacht. Und ich möchte ihm mit dir teilen. Sein Name ist Isaiah. Wir konnten alle Linien der Iris seines Auges sehen. Die Details waren am besten unter Wasser. Ich liebte seinen kleinen Bauch. Wir hatten eine Gedenkfeier. Jesaja ist ein kostbares Baby ... ein echtes Baby ... wie er von Anfang an war ... und ich werde immer seine Mutter sein. Il mio bambino è morto a 13 settimane di gravidanza (11 settimane dopo il concepimento). Ho avuto delle belle foto su di lui e ho realizzato questo video per mostrare a tutti che aspetto ha un bambino nel grembo materno. Le didascalie del video dicevano: A 13 settimane, il mio dolce bambino morì. L'ho consegnato nel modo più naturale possibile. Il mio amico ha fatto delle foto per me. E voglio condividerlo con te. Il suo nome è Isaia. Potremmo vedere tutte le linee dell'iride del suo occhio. I dettagli si sono presentati meglio sott'acqua. Ho amato la sua piccola pancia. Abbiamo avuto un servizio di sepoltura. Isaia è un bebe prezioso ... un vero bebe ... com'era sin dall'inizio ... e sarò sempre sua madre. Мой ребенок умер в 13 недель беременности (через 11 недель после зачатия). У меня были красивые фотографии его и сделали это видео, чтобы показать всем, как выглядит ребенок в матке. Подписи к видео: «Через 13 недель мой сладкий ребенок умер. Я поставил его как можно более естественно. Мой друг сделал фотографии для меня. И я хочу поделиться им с вами. Его зовут Исаия. Мы могли видеть все линии радужной оболочки глаза. Детали оказались лучше под водой. Я любил его маленький живот. У нас была поминальная служба. Исайя - драгоценный ребенок ... настоящий ребенок ... как он был с самого начала ... и я всегда буду его матерью. توفي طفلي في 13 أسبوع من الحمل (بعد 11 أسبوعًا من الحمل). كان لدي صور جميلة له وصنع هذا الفيديو لأظهر للجميع ما يبدو عليه الطفل الرضيع حقا. قراءة تسميات الفيديو: في 13 أسبوعاً مات طفلي الحلو. لقد سلمته بشكل طبيعي قدر الإمكان. أخذ صديقي الصور لي. وأريد أن أشاركه معك. اسمه اشعياء. يمكننا رؤية جميع خطوط قزحية عينه. أظهرت التفاصيل أفضل تحت الماء. أنا أحب بطنه الصغير. كان لدينا خدمة الدفن. أشعياء هو طفل ثمين ... طفل حقيقي ... كما كان من البداية ... وسوف أكون دائما أمه.
Mary Johnson
Mary Johnson 10 місяців тому
RIP he will go to heaven your beloved baby boy
Anthony Heaton
Anthony Heaton 11 місяців тому
I am so sorry to hear that
anamika mishra
anamika mishra 11 місяців тому
Isaiah's mom, you r really very brave..May the little angel boy Rest In Peace..you r a mom in actual..I salute u
Christina M.
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I'm really sorry for you :( 😅I'm sorry but I don't really know what to say, I'm speechless
Lilian Wu
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I feel so bad for u😢😟😦😳😶😭😭😭😔
indha uroon Ali
indha uroon Ali Місяць тому
Omg am sorry beautiful little babies
BoBo Man
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R.I.P Isaiah He Will Never Be Forgotten 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Katy Ayala
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:( rip 😪
Nicholas Dizon
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valentina merlos
valentina merlos Місяць тому
Oh h I'm so sorry for your loss how hard it must be to overcome that lost
Kawaii Shark
Kawaii Shark Місяць тому
Soooooo young
John Tyler
John Tyler Місяць тому
Sorry for your loss
Pubg Playes
Pubg Playes Місяць тому
Rip lil bro sorry for your loss my prayers go to your family 🙏
Emonnii&jasy The cuties
Emonnii&jasy The cuties Місяць тому
😭😭 R.I.P
Nirelle R.
Nirelle R. Місяць тому
Omg omg omg I feel so bad I’m so scared now I’m in my 13th week
Bunny Cupcake
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This made me cry, this is so sad. Rest in piece little Isaiah 😭😭❤️ I’m so sorry for your loss
Shanya Taylor
Shanya Taylor Місяць тому
R.i.p baby your with your creator now 😔
Lightbrightkayyy Heyyy
Lightbrightkayyy Heyyy Місяць тому
Rip 🤕💔
Vierotchka Місяць тому
So sorry for your loss. I presume you had him baptized - otherwise you could not have had a funeral service for him in church. I too am Orthodox. My mother miscarried a little girl at six months, before I was conceived. I do believe she was baptized and had a funeral service in church. The mistake my parents made was to give me the same first name that they gave her - it has been a very heavy load on me all my life. This is for Isaiah: ukvid.net/video/%D0%B2%D1%96%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-si_H9GXuGtU.html
Isaiahs Mom
Isaiahs Mom Місяць тому
Hi Vierotchka-- No, we did not have him baptized. We did not have the traditional funeral for him. We had a beautiful burial service specifically for infants who die in the womb or immediately after birth. I'm sorry for the loss of your precious sister. May her memory be eternal. Thank you for the link. It's beautiful!
Kiersten Kuk
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Rip baby
Tiny Galaxy gamer
Tiny Galaxy gamer Місяць тому
I wonder what it will be like from his eyes R.I.P
Go way
Go way Місяць тому
I'm Crying So Hard. LLI ( Long Live Isaiah) We Pray For The Family And Isaiah ♥️🕊
Maria Konstancja Niezgoda Azanha
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So heart breaking...
smrita Rabha
smrita Rabha Місяць тому
My eyes are full of tears after watching this
He was and is so precious 💕 he is with God now :)
Psychic Friend Fred Bear
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5 years in heaven i hope he isn't sad up there without you R.I.P😢
Gacha Sunflower
Gacha Sunflower Місяць тому
This is so sad he was a cute thic baby he shall R.I.P he is a baby thic god he is with god an the angels it was hard to give hem up but life is life an god will give hem care an good stuff an some day we will all see that baby thic god… R.I.P
Southside Rescue
Southside Rescue Місяць тому
This 😭
Southside Rescue
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Meredith Ahern-Tamilio
Meredith Ahern-Tamilio Місяць тому
Thank you for sharing your story with me..my heart hurts for your loss an angel he will be forever may our heavenly father bless your family with all the good life has to bring my thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful family I'm very sorry for your loss...
Amber Star
Amber Star Місяць тому
Omg this breaks my heart 😥😥😥😥😥
Baby Bites
Baby Bites Місяць тому
So brave of you to share! Glad that you were able to celebrate his short life, and give him a lovely send off ❤️
Dstupik73 Місяць тому
I'm so sorry. I'm sure I, and all other people with me in this internet comment section feel your pain.
Random YouTuber IDK the II
Random YouTuber IDK the II Місяць тому
That's sad
Susan Fast
Susan Fast Місяць тому
God bless you and your family. Condolences for you loss.
Chandan Rawat
Chandan Rawat Місяць тому
I am speechless.. I can't say a single word... Being a male how sad I am after watching this video that only I know. you are truly a fighter.. you handled the situation very beautifully 👍.. I wish n I pray to God one day you will meet your Angele. god bless you with sweet n cute baby..
Brooklyn Lilly
Brooklyn Lilly Місяць тому
Oh sweet baby I know your in heaven with God now rip I cried so much when I watched this poor beloved baby rest in peace! I watched this over and over again. And I still cried each time I watched it I prayed 10 times to make sure he was in heaven! R.I.P hope you enjoy heaven with God he will for sure protect you and I pray for him all the time! R.I.P beloved and loved baby. 😢😢 😞 he didn't even get to experience life yet he died way too soon!
Kalaivani Kkuruparan
Kalaivani Kkuruparan Місяць тому
It does not matter how he looks all that matters is that he will alway be a cute little angel
Ronasha Balgobin
Ronasha Balgobin Місяць тому
God bless you and your family 😭😖🙏💕
🙏🏿 isaiah is now in heaven with the angels
Dano Rose
Dano Rose Місяць тому
I’m so sorry
Courtnie Michelle
Courtnie Michelle Місяць тому
Soo sad 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 I cried for like 2 hours
Jessa Rowland
Jessa Rowland Місяць тому
The cutest little nose, he looks so sweet 💖 thank you for sharing
Mushroom Місяць тому
Gamer swag2435
Gamer swag2435 Місяць тому
Oh my goodness he had a little coffin and everything that is so sad he was so tiny and cute im so sorry for your loss😭😢😢 but at least he is in heaven 😇😇
Jenifer D'souza
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MyloFresh87 Місяць тому
im going to be father in aprox 3 months. i dont know what i should feel when seeing this poor little angel. parts of me feel lucky at moment, and parts of me feel sad about your loss ... but there is one more part that shows me how strong and great this little boys parents are. sharing this with the world , that opens lots of minds and eyes of every human beeing who is watching what its like to love. Dear parents of Isaiah , i wish you all the best in the world. i wish someday Isaiah can look down from heaven and watch his brother or sister doing their lifes. that would be a nice thought dont it? in my opinion you guys are the most strongest humans on planet. god will bless you. i pray for your angel. love you =)
Conner Місяць тому
So it’s a fetus?
Isaiahs Mom
Isaiahs Mom Місяць тому
Yes. This is a miscarriage that happened at 13 weeks of pregnancy (the last week of the first trimester).
Beth Muchiri
Beth Muchiri Місяць тому
It's so emotional 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 R I P. GOD IS WITH HIM.
Lil Yung Lionel_ 2780
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Why would y'all people hate this video for! 76k dislikes? If y'all hate this, U have no SOUL. Hating for no reason tbh. Smh🤦🏽
ElectricBoba シ
ElectricBoba シ Місяць тому
I’m actually crying no mother should go through this 😭
fortnitedude431 shit
fortnitedude431 shit Місяць тому
Wait so baby died and how did it come out when it was that small????? R.I.P
Isaiahs Mom
Isaiahs Mom Місяць тому
This is a miscarriage that happened at 13 weeks of pregnancy (the last week of the first trimester).
Mohammad Eshaq
Mohammad Eshaq Місяць тому
You will always see him again in heaven
LovelyJacklie Місяць тому
Omg I am almost crying... how you born with small baby for 13 weeks?
Isaiahs Mom
Isaiahs Mom Місяць тому
This is a miscarriage that happened at 13 weeks of pregnancy (the last week of the first trimester).
Gabezilla 2002
Gabezilla 2002 Місяць тому
I’m sorry
ლLadybug and Cat Noir Fan Ro ლ
I'm verry sorry for it ...
Carla Lindoor
Carla Lindoor Місяць тому
This is sad 😢😢😭😭🙁🙁🌹🌹
KraftyKitties PlaysR0bLOx
KraftyKitties PlaysR0bLOx Місяць тому
Omg he’s so tiny and cute, I’m so sad that he died 😭
Bodhisatya debsharma
Bodhisatya debsharma Місяць тому
God may give your baby's soul for salvation.
Shayleigh Trotman
Shayleigh Trotman Місяць тому
God bless you and your family I hope God will bless you with another child (but this time born healthy) 💖💖💖
RJ Cantillon
RJ Cantillon Місяць тому
W-what happend to him?😔A-and why is he so little? 😔D-id he have a brother or a sister? 😔
Ceremy Pierre
Ceremy Pierre Місяць тому
Awww rip with Jesus this made me cry
Rehnuma Qadir
Rehnuma Qadir Місяць тому
I lost my child 3 weeks ago she was 36 week and a healthy looking baby with 3 kg weight and she was the most beautiful baby girl I have ever seen she was pinkish white having beautiful eyes and nose but she left us after two days of her life. I can't describe my pain 😥😥😥
Isaiahs Mom
Isaiahs Mom Місяць тому
I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious little girl. ❤️
Agnieszka Fichner
Agnieszka Fichner Місяць тому
Awe 😔😓
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